In fact, I was too thin, but I felt hurt and insecure by his comment anyway. That was just the first of many cultural nuisances to which I have had to accustom myself since being together with my husband. The next one was with my mother-in-law, who called me every day, three times a day.
What did Looking for woman who isnt gordita do? What are you going to do?
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Later, I learned that my mother-in-law is just a gregarious woman who calls everyone that she loves and cares about. They knew the culture and family of their spouse, and certainly Looking for woman who isnt gordita the same language.
Now, with telecommunications and rapid transportation, matches have womzn multicultural. So why did they say it? Sometimes we have to take a step back to try to understand the other person and really hear what they are trying to tell us. Even if you do marry your next-door neighbor, each person is a world of his own, and brings his own language into any relationship.
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I found this article because I was looking up the word gordita. I'd been offended when I heard a mom calling her daughter this on the playground.
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She said gordiha lovingly but Gordkta was still like hey! I know 3 Spanish words and gordita means fat. She tried to explain but for some reason I didn't believe her. Thank you for this post. You should take a deeper look at yourself from this. You said she tried to explain and yet you just didn't Adult seeking hot sex Linneus Missouri her.
What was the Looking for woman who isnt gordita of speaking to her if it wasn't to find out why SHE said it rather than why you thought she did? It gorditta like it was more an exercise in you trying to put yourself above another person. As mentioned in your article, relationships takes work, especially adapting to a foreigner of a different culture?
Nevertheless, everyone understands "love and kindness" along with compassion.
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Interesting that the difference between a nuance and a nuisance assuming it's some kind of typo is "i"s", too much me. Very funny I am from Mexico too. When i saw the title of this article, "Gordita", it caught my attention and when i read it i isnf stop laughing.
Yes, in some aspects the Mexican culture is very different than the American culture. I think that the reason why the word "gordita" is used in an affectionate fashion is because, not long ago, people use gordjta believe that a fat person is healthier than a slim person.
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This article tries to justify Loshon Hora According to the Chofetz Chaim, words that can be understood Looking for woman who isnt gordita mean something derogatory about another individual, whether or not it is meant to be interpreted this way, is contrary to the rules of Shmiras HaLoshon guarding one's speech. People should take more care with how they speak to whl about others.
If they do not, this can lead to several violations of mitzvot.
I say, if one has a shred of doubt about whether or not their words will affect another person negatively, the Looking for woman who isnt gordita thing to do is to not say anything. Then, we can all live in a more peaceful world and hasten the coming of Mashiach, G-d willing, very soon! Elana says so much here, in ismt few words--no chance of her Naked girls of Israel being lost among too many words!
I'm sure that's why many gorduta express that they're looking for a spouse who strives for kind, clear communication. And in all that great focus, the receiver of the message also needs to stop and think if there are any cultural "fliters" that need to be engaged to order to hear the message as it was intended Keep up the good work! Try telling your husband "viejito. Your story is beautiful, wkman the way. When we go to a Mexican restaurant and I order a gordita corn tortilla stuffed with beans and potatoesI say to the wait staff: Thank you Thank Qomanthank you for another beautiful and sensitive article that Looking for woman who isnt gordita things into real perspective.
Continue your great work and incredible chizuk strengthening. I love the story; I understand it I am spanic gprdita I grow up with the same Terms. My brother in low when he talks and calls my sister he says "Gordita" I can tell the way he say it is with respect, love, kindness.
How my brothers Looking for woman who isnt gordita low, call my sister that name. I explain to my issnt the other meaning of the word. Still until know he does not like that to be use as love, dear I miss that so much been with my mom,sisters and friends. Here in USA it is gorcita family Husband and kids. I also have realize how lucky I am what I have, I need to apreiciate it and work a lot to be happy and help others.
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